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Middle child syndrome (2)
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Here he is now, my middle child, Aypee, already 22 years old, fourth year Nursing student.

Aypee

Aypee takes a break from doing the rounds at Philippine Veterans Hospital during his affiliation in said hospital last October.

He learned how to single bike at three years old. He would be wheeling around the yard, sometimes with his hands widespread on the side and off the handle while saying…”Look, Kuya, no hands.” Two years older Marco would then follow him around, begging: “Teach me how to bike, Aypee, please…”

He learned how to drive at 10, and started hitting the road at 12.
It was a gloomy afternoon. Aypee was home from school, but his sister was yet to be dismissed later. It could rain anytime as the clouds were dark and heavy. I was supposed to pick up Gem from school because my husband was on an out of town trip. But I feared we might be caught in the rain and get wet if we commuted and my daughter’s cold might worsen. There was the car in the garage, but who would drive? Now, this is the area where I am a totally useless person: I can’t drive, I don’t drive and I don’t think I can ever learn to drive.

I made a bold and risky decision. “Aypee, come, let’s go fetch your sister.” I know it was a foolish move. He had no student license yet and I had none either. All we had was a Press car pass and a charming smile to show the cop in case we were apprehended. But I was desperate. Thankfully, we were able to manage through. Aypee drove very carefully and we waded our way slowly on the road while I clutched on my rosary praying hard for our safety. Praise God for He must have sent his angels to guide us. And it didn’t rain either, which was another blessing, because it would be doubly risky for my neophyte driver son to be driving on wet road. (Oh, please, don’t handcuff me… I know it was a wrong move. I placed my young son at great risk, and I cringe even now as I recall it. :( )

More on Aypee on next entry…. Ohhh.. I know he’s loving and enjoying this attention and exposure! :D

rhodora @ 7:16 am

42 Comments for 'Middle child syndrome (2)'

  1.  
    March 16, 2007 | 8:11 am
     

    great looking and talented young man, i am sure mayroong pinagmanahan yan.

  2.  
    March 16, 2007 | 8:55 am
     

    Bakit nga ba second nature sa mga batang lalaki (most of them anyway) ang driving? Pareho pala tayo — we don’t drive but are driven. am always at the mercy of my drivers. buti na lang dami nila. haha

    Wow — you let JP drive in the rain at 12. Grabe. I could imagine how hard you were praying. I bet he wasn’t nervous at all except that he had a jittery woman beside him. Sarap na ngayong i-recall ano?

  3.  
    March 16, 2007 | 10:25 am
     

    Wow! Driving at 10. he must be a good driver now!

  4.  
    March 16, 2007 | 1:23 pm
     

    wow! good drived ha :)

    buti ka pa swerte sa middle child mo :) ang parents ko problemado sa middle child nila haha ( my sister ) kakainis nga eh.. i would wrote an entry soon sa blog ko kapag kaya ko ng mag-kwento.. its just so hurting me kasi :(

  5.  
    March 16, 2007 | 3:03 pm
     

    wow! driving at 10? and here’s a 30 year old who’ll start a driving lesson only now? what’s wrong with the world?? hehe :)

  6.  
    March 16, 2007 | 4:12 pm
     

    10 years old and driving? Wow, he must’ve been that tall for his foot to reach the clutch and gas pedal, assuming that the cae was manual.

  7.  
    March 16, 2007 | 5:37 pm
     

    I could only imagine how he looked like inside the car while driving. Could he even see the road while on the steering? He was small by then.

  8.  
    KK
    March 16, 2007 | 10:12 pm
     

    Muy Gwapo ang iyong Aypee! Now, I also want to have a son :) .

    Driving at 10, wow. galing. You must have been pretty desperate making your 12 year old drive. I’m sure you trusted him to be a safe driver.

  9.  
    March 16, 2007 | 10:26 pm
     

    Guwapo ang anak mo ah! Wow, it does pay to inherit good genes from your parents, hehehe. :)

    I also cringed when I read that story about your son driving at such an early age. Siguro nga emergency, but I hate to think of what could possibly happen when a young, inexperienced driver is at the wheels.

  10.  
    ysa
    March 16, 2007 | 11:07 pm
     

    does he complain about duty hours and how tiring it sometimes get??? =) he’s lucky mom is around..while I’m the mom and the student.. he he he..

  11.  
    March 17, 2007 | 2:26 am
     

    He looks good!

    (:

  12.  
    March 17, 2007 | 3:13 am
     

    I am a middle child. I know the reason why?

  13.  
    March 17, 2007 | 3:14 am
     

    **I know the reason why.

  14.  
    vic
    March 17, 2007 | 5:39 am
     

    That’s was a risky move indeed and just thinking about it later can make anyone start thinking “of what might have been” if something had gone wrong. Nice of you to post it, just to remind your readers that unless you need to (a matter of life and death), such attempt should not be undertaken under any other circumstances.

    Good looking son, and sure got it from the mom and brain from dad maybe?

  15.  
    rhodora
    March 17, 2007 | 8:20 am
     

    Iskoo, you make me blush… hehehe

  16.  
    rhodora
    March 17, 2007 | 8:22 am
     

    Anna, I’m sure he enjoyed every minute of that glory. :)

    Kaya nga, hirap ang hindi marunong mag drive. I’m very poor in directions, madaling mawala, so I have given up… :(

  17.  
    rhodora
    March 17, 2007 | 8:23 am
     

    Sidney – with his eyes closed! Haha!

  18.  
    rhodora
    March 17, 2007 | 8:24 am
     

    Jhenny.. are you the eldest?

  19.  
    rhodora
    March 17, 2007 | 8:25 am
     

    Zherwin, well, my brother learned to drive when he was in mid 30s. Never too late. And 30 is not old.. ! :)

  20.  
    rhodora
    March 17, 2007 | 8:26 am
     

    Snglguy, it was small car.. and he would adjust the seat. Anyway, he learned to drive at 10, but started really driving at 12.

  21.  
    rhodora
    March 17, 2007 | 8:31 am
     

    At 10, Dimaks, he was just learning.. Praktis praktis ba sa bahay at sa street namin and on the highway with my hubby. When he was 12, he was as tall as me, so hindi na siya nahirapan and he was already driving, with my hubby on his side, whenever we went to visit my parents – 20 minutes drive from us. But that time I asked him to drive ot fetch his sister was his first time to drive through city traffic. :)

  22.  
    rhodora
    March 17, 2007 | 8:33 am
     

    KK, indeed, ibang iba ang may anak na lalaki. I feel secure at night even when hubby is on out of town trip. I have a handyman at my disposal anytime too.. Hehehe, this sounds like child exploitation ba? Oh, but he’s 22!

  23.  
    rhodora
    March 17, 2007 | 8:36 am
     

    Kathy, thanks! (Naku, inamin naman – hehe)

    Hay, I never did that mistake again. If ever something happened, I could not forgive myself.. :(

  24.  
    rhodora
    March 17, 2007 | 8:36 am
     

    Ysa, everytime he comes home from duty all he says is – “Hay, masyadong toxic!” :D

  25.  
    rhodora
    March 17, 2007 | 8:37 am
     

    Kyels, thanks! :)

  26.  
    rhodora
    March 17, 2007 | 8:38 am
     

    Myepinoy, so you too drove for your mom when you were 12? :D

  27.  
    rhodora
    March 17, 2007 | 8:41 am
     

    Vic… whaaat? brain from dad? I PROTEST! I PROTEST! Maybe driving skills from dad, papayag pa ako.. :D

    Yes, that is my point, really, to tell the world I was sorry for what I did.. I shouldn’t have done it. Until now, I am bugged with the ‘What if” question whenever I recall that foolish decision. :(

  28.  
    March 17, 2007 | 12:30 pm
     

    yep.. dakilang eldest lol :P

  29.  
    March 17, 2007 | 12:34 pm
     

    yep.. dakilang eldest po.. lol :P

  30.  
    March 17, 2007 | 4:23 pm
     

    Aypee was surely a special child before, more active than his age and now, for certain he remains a special individual…

  31.  
    March 18, 2007 | 1:01 am
     

    Yes I did. I drove my mom crazy and my father too…. ha ha

  32.  
    March 18, 2007 | 12:45 pm
     

    Myepinoy! Was about to say that too. That I don’t drive but drive ny kids crazy. Haha.

    Hello Rhoda. Hope you’re enjoying your Sunday.

  33.  
    rhodora
    March 18, 2007 | 5:36 pm
     

    Jhenny.. you must be your parents’ trusted one, being the eldest.. :)

  34.  
    rhodora
    March 18, 2007 | 5:37 pm
     

    Major Tom.. yes, thanks. Every child, I believe, is special.. :)

  35.  
    rhodora
    March 18, 2007 | 5:37 pm
     

    Myepinoy, ikaw ha.. Hehehe…

  36.  
    rhodora
    March 18, 2007 | 5:38 pm
     

    Anna… sabi nga nila – “mahirap magpalaki ng nanay.. ” hehehe.

    Happy Sunday too! :)

  37.  
    March 18, 2007 | 5:49 pm
     

    With a smile like that… times two… hmmm… makakalusot nga kayo hehe.

  38.  
    rhodora
    March 18, 2007 | 9:39 pm
     

    Richmond, buti na lang di kami na-apprehend.. hehe..

  39.  
    March 20, 2007 | 11:58 am
     

    Ang gwapo naman ng anak mo, rhodora.

    Pareho tayo. I don’t drive either. I took lessons and spent hundreds of dollars but I’m just a nervous wreck behind the wheel.

  40.  
    rhodora
    March 20, 2007 | 5:38 pm
     

    Irene! How’s the trip to New York? Natuloy na ba?

    Thanks, pa-cute lang yan.. hehe… My kids, except the eldest, are fond of posing before the camera.

    Kaya nga – I don’t think I will still learn to drive. Nerbyosa din ako! :(

  41.  
    March 29, 2007 | 10:57 am
     

    Hi Mrs. Palinar :)

    Thanks for visiting my blog this morning :) Btw I know kuya ike personally and i’ve always admired his angelic face hehehe :) kidding aside, i guess he should be featured in your blog more often because i noticed that he has a lot of admirers! I made this small online game 2 years ago where he is one of the so-called “virtual housemate” hehehe :)

    I’m looking forward to more personal entries! :)

  42.  
    March 29, 2007 | 4:20 pm
     

    Kamukha nya si nodie ng PBB season 2

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