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My 25th year anniversary as a mother
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Today is my 25th year anniversary as a mother.

(I labored for two days and three nights. My obstetrician told me she needed to perform a CS on me if the baby didn’t come out by 2:30 a.m. of July 14. But 30 minutes to the ultimatum, he turned, seemingly ready to come out. Still, forceps had to be used to suck his head out.

Ah, it’s always the hardest the first time, yet the sweetest when I heard his cry reverberating within the walls of the delivery room. Right then and there I felt like I was also reborn as a person.)

Happy 25th birthday to my first born. Not a very young age anymore. I seriously believe he has to begin assessing his priorities now and start mapping out his future.

We haven’t talked much lately. Anyhow, I sure know he is happy because of this someone in his life.

Don’t kid me by saying I sound jealous. No, I’m not. Whatever/whoever can give him happiness, as long as it/she is a factor to his being a better person, I am happy as well.

Twenty five years of mothering! That’s half of my life spent.

Suddenly, I felt numb.

(Kindly click and follow the “someone” link to know and see more about who makes my son happy. And if you may - browse on other entries. She writes well. Thank you.)

rhodora @ 1:05 am

29 Comments for 'My 25th year anniversary as a mother'

  1.  
    liz
    July 14, 2007 | 9:26 am
     

    he always asks me whether he’s too old for me. but of course i say, pfft, age is just a state of mind.

    happy anniversary! ^_^ and happy birthday to Marco.

  2.  
    Kyels
    July 14, 2007 | 10:20 am
     

    Happy Anniversary to you Tita and also Happy Birthday to your son … ;D

    Well, being a mother is something very noble; that’s what I think.

    ;)

  3.  
    July 14, 2007 | 2:36 pm
     

    oh you’re such a cool Mom Tita Rhodes…I mean being friends/blogfriends with your son’s girlfriend and all :)

    Anyway it’s alright to be a little bit jealous from time to time but I guess we all know that you’ll always be the first love of your son :)

    Happy 25 years of motherhood!

  4.  
    July 14, 2007 | 3:29 pm
     

    happy birthday to Marco, Happy Birthday to you, too. i remember my grandmother (bless her soul)–she would always greet me a happy birthday when one of my kids celebrates a birthday. she would say “it is your birthday also”, imagine the pains you had to go through when giving birth. true, true.

    reading SOMEONE’S blog, i guess they have found true love in one another. lucky mom

  5.  
    July 14, 2007 | 4:54 pm
     

    Wow! Another shocking revelation! :p

    Wow Happy Silver Anniversary s a mom to you Tita Rhodora! Happy Birthday to you Kuya Marco! :)

    I hope you could bring Liz here in Dagupan soon :) I think I saw her at the iblog3

  6.  
    liz
    July 14, 2007 | 6:43 pm
     

    and i think i saw you at iblog3 too. the picnic people right? anyway you looked like you were having a picnic with your friend. or at least sitting down on the grass eating something. which should constitute a picnic. er.

    anyway, my maternal side is originally from Pangasinan, San Carlos to be specific. now all i have to do is wait for a relative to die and i’ll be there sooner than anyone thinks. ^_^

  7.  
    July 14, 2007 | 6:59 pm
     

    Rhodora, happy mom-versary and happy birthday to your panganay! :)

  8.  
    July 14, 2007 | 8:15 pm
     

    Whoa! Your son is the same age as my first Goddaughter. That means… OMG, I AM OLD! Gah! :-D

  9.  
    July 15, 2007 | 1:28 am
     

    You have to commend your son for choosing to be independent, Rhodora. Quite admirable, really.

    It’s sad that the both of you don’t seem to see eye to eye on this.

  10.  
    July 15, 2007 | 2:03 am
     

    happy birthday to your son!
    and happy anniversary to you :)

  11.  
    July 15, 2007 | 7:26 am
     

    rhodora, you raise a fine man. happy birthday to him.

  12.  
    LAR
    July 15, 2007 | 10:56 am
     

    Happy 25th mother’s day to you and happy birthday to your son! You’re a great mother to all your children and I know your son will always remember that! And whoever makes him happy, will also makes you happy! :)

  13.  
    July 15, 2007 | 5:47 pm
     

    Happy anniversary to you and happy birthday to your first born! Wow, 25 years of mothering… one half of your life well spent so congratulations!

  14.  
    July 15, 2007 | 8:52 pm
     

    Happy anniversary to you as a mother and happy birthday to Marco. 25 is such a momentous age for every young man like him, a turning ppoint phase from being a young man towards full adulthood with so many important decisions to be finally decided upon like career and lovelife.

    More power.

  15.  
    July 16, 2007 | 9:51 am
     

    Congratulations Rhodora on your motherhood! Also to your son! Continue being a great mom!

  16.  
    July 16, 2007 | 3:31 pm
     

    pwede na syang mag asaw at magkaroon din ng first day nya as a father.

  17.  
    July 16, 2007 | 4:03 pm
     

    Happy b-day to your first born rhods & Happy anni to you,too! besos

  18.  
    July 16, 2007 | 11:51 pm
     

    Greetings to both of you! and more blessings to come and cherish.

  19.  
    July 17, 2007 | 2:30 pm
     

    what a cool mom! happy 25th birthday to your son, tita! :)

  20.  
    July 17, 2007 | 5:00 pm
     

    Rhoda .. uunahan mo pa akong magka-daughter-in-law at magka-apo?

    Yeah, you’re not jealous. :)

    Kamukha mo nga si Marco.

    You’l be fine ..

  21.  
    Gemnaika
    July 18, 2007 | 1:54 pm
     

    Mama, i miss you :”(

  22.  
    rhodora
    July 18, 2007 | 3:02 pm
     

    Thank you all, my dearest blog friends all for your greetings and good wishes. :)

    And Gem, anak - what are you doing being online at this hour? Study! hehe.. I love you and miss you too, baby. Mwah!

  23.  
    July 18, 2007 | 4:44 pm
     

    Love that last comment … hehehe!

    Congratulations, Rhoda!

  24.  
    rhodora
    July 18, 2007 | 9:36 pm
     

    Eric, nahuli ko siyang naka online, ano? hehehe.

    Thanks! :)

  25.  
    July 19, 2007 | 7:57 am
     

    My son Julian and I both celebrate our birthdays on July 14. And yeah, I visited Lizette’s blog and greeted your son there. Opening line: Got here through Rhoda’s blog. :)

    Btw, LOL about Gem.

  26.  
    joe
    July 20, 2007 | 1:25 pm
     

    Belated happy 25th anniversary Rhodora! And birthday greetings to your son Marco.

  27.  
    July 21, 2007 | 12:00 am
     

    Happy 25th anniversary as a mother :-)
    it’s always difficult the first time, but, at the end of the day, it’s all worth it…

  28.  
    July 22, 2007 | 9:01 am
     

    hi rhodora, got here thru annamanila. happy anniversary to you, wow, 25 years of parenthood… and belated happy birhday to your son. you’re such a cool momma.

  29.  
    August 11, 2007 | 2:58 pm
     

    I hope you children can read your blog(im sure they do)….just to let them know the pains u went through for having them

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